Breast cancer awareness: Advice from survivors

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Posted: Monday, October 7, 2013 5:16 pm | Updated: 9:26 pm, Tue Nov 5, 2013.

ORLANDO, Fla. (Ivanhoe Newswire) -- This year, more than 200,000 women in the U.S. will be diagnosed with aggressive breast cancer. Once diagnosed, their lives will change forever. However, some breast cancer survivors are willing to share their secrets in order to minimize the fear and isolation of cancer.

The fear, the dread, the panic, all of the emotions that follow a diagnosis of breast cancer can overwhelm the toughest of women.

“I was fine,” Lisa Crites told Ivanhoe.

“I thought, ‘this is it, I’m probably going to die now,” Sherry Palmer told Ivanhoe.

“I’ll be okay. I was like as long as it’s me and not my mom and dad,” Jennifer Batchellor told Ivanhoe.

It’s not just the emotions; there are the doctors’ appointments, the treatment options, and the side-effect, all of which can be a lot to digest.

However, “the physicians are so busy keeping you alive; they miss the pragmatic pieces of advice,” Lisa said.

So, in order to get the pragmatic advice they needed, breast cancer survivors Lisa Crites, Sherry Palmer, and Jennifer Batchellor joined a support group called breast friends.

Their first piece of advice, “I did a lot of physical therapy where you literally walk your hands up and down the wall,” Lisa said.

For Lisa, doing that for a couple weeks built up her strength. Sherry Palmer says surgeons will tell you to sleep in the recliner after surgery.

“You sleep in the recliner. When you’re sick, you want to be in your own bed,” Sherry explained.

So instead, use a wedge pillow.

“It helps with healing. It helps with swelling. It helps with drainage,” Sherry said.

Jennifer Batchellor says that she learned to go out and enjoy the few good days she did have.

“Really take the time to get up, leave the house, go to the mall with your mom, or see a movie with a friend,” Jennifer said.

However, most important thing these ladies say to remember, “people, patients, have got to be psychologically accepting of the choices they make,” Lisa said.

Although cancer patients have long benefited from support groups, they may still have trouble talking about their experiences. Online intervention tools may be a different option.

In a study from the University of California at Los Angeles, researchers found that women with breast cancer who created websites as a way to cope the disease, reported feeling less depressed, more positive, and having a greater appreciation for life.

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1 comment:

  • Linsosweet posted at 9:56 pm on Fri, Oct 18, 2013.

    Linsosweet Posts: 1

    Hi, everyone, I am so happy to find this website, I need to tell you my depression is very deep and I need help...how do you cope with remission 4 months and how to live again without being scarred.....is there a book I can read or a support group I can go to in sarasota.....deeply deeply depressed in sarasota...thanks for any help....Linda in sarasota

     

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